When you judge another, you do not define them, you define yourself. ~ Wayne Dyer

So I found myself talking about someone the other day.  So what happens sometimes is instead of doing what we desire, we decide to talk about someone who is doing things in judgment.  You see the inability to be strong and decisive, our lacking of bold and brave has bothered us so greatly we’ve decided to make my decision, or lack of decision appear right by dimming the light of my choices and shining the light of judgment.

It is never proper or correct to speak of another’s behaviors.  Because the core values and/or beliefs of someone are unknown.  Additionally let us not judge harshly, less we fall prey to this ourselves.  With so much negative being spun, why not be the voice of warmth and friendliness.

What I’ve found in my life, it is so much easier to be that which I desire to receive.  So no matter what another has done to put my accusatory tone and instead offer supportive pleasantries realizing that we are all different, making choices for what we know to be true at any given moment in our lives.